Try Thinking First
Do you sometimes feel you need to speak and express your opinion on something you don't agree with or when you may have been wronged? Do you just say what you want to say because it makes you feel better? Try thinking first. Ask yourself "Will my comments be productive? Will they build up or tear down? Are my comments constructive?' Paul says "Why not rather be wronged. Why not rather be cheated" (1 Cor 6:7). Make the choice to put yourself last. Be willing to be wronged when necessary in order to do the right thing and build others up for Christ sake.