Tactics of the enemy
Our spiritual enemy, the great deceiver, the accuser of the brethren, likes to make us think the wrong way is the right way. His oldest and probably most effective trick is to use our pride against us. I've noticed so many people in our culture who do not want to be offended or have their rights, and their way challenged. If they refuse to be emptied, they can never be filled. They stand in front of God with their meager treasures and ideas clinched tightly in their fists while Jesus spreads his arms wide offering them eternal rewards far beyond our comprehension and without end. Yeah, that's deception alright!